The Help by
Kathryn Stockett
My rating:
5 of 5 stars
This contains spoilers, so if you don't want to know things, stop reading here.
The Help is set in 1962-1964 in Jackson, Mississippi and focuses on the lives of Southern women -- the black maids who work in middle and upper class homes and the white women who employ them. The setting of Jackson is during the early stirrings of civil rights, but after Rosa Parks made it possible to sit anywhere on the bus. The story is told from the point of view of three women, Aibaleen and Minny, two maids, and Skeeter, a college-educated journalist who thinks that the traditional attitudes about segregation need to change. The three women come from very different backgrounds and ages, but their lives intertwine around the project spear-headed by Skeeter, to write a book telling the story of what maids go through -- the good and the bad. In particular, the story focuses on Aibaleen's trying to raise her employer's little girl to be less racist and to be more confident in herself, on Minny's trials as an opinionated woman whose mouth often gets her fired, and on Skeeter's rejection by her former friends for even thinking about desegregation. There are other sidelines in the stories of Hilly, the most racist and superior of friends, Elizabeth, the friend who can't quite leave Hilly's orbit, Celia, the white "trash" beauty who just can't get anyone in Hilly's crowd to call her back or embrace her socially, and the other maids who first refuse to share their stories and then whole-heartedly embrace it after Hilly arranges for her maid to have an all-too-speedy trial over the theft of a cheap garnet ring.
I believe that the characters of Minny, Aibie, and Skeeter are well-developed, believable characters who come together in unlikely circumstances. It might seem unbelievable at first, but someone had to be first to cross the race barrier; otherwise, we would still have some form of segregation. I think overall it is Aibie who is the most memorable and believable and who really illustrates the struggle and dilemma of black women of that time. She puts up with much from Hilly and just bites her tongue -- but would doing otherwise have benefitted her? As we see, Minny loses her job and can't get another, and another maid goes to jail for a relatively minor theft. Hilly even manages to frame Aibie for the theft of her silverware...thankfully, Elizabeth decides not to press charges. This shows the precarious nature of the jobs of these maids and why so few of them spoke up. However, the danger of their meeting with Skeeter so regularly is seems underplayed.....I applaud what they do, but I wonder if they really would have been able to meet so often without many noticing Skeeter there. Overall, though the character of Aibie is an inspiration.
I also feel strongly about Minny and her struggles with her abusive husband and her concern for her children and her pride and unwillingness to take so much abuse from her employers. I think that her circumstances working for Celia are a bit unrealistic, but adds a sense of comic relief at points and shows that the rigidity of the southern white social structure also excluded white trash. I think though that the main point of Celia is to show that not all women then were so rigid in the segregation. Celia insists on eating with Minny at the same table, and the women each save the others life at some point. (Celia saves Minny from the crazed naked white man, and Minny saves Celia from hemmorhaging after her fourth miscarriage.) The final satisfaction of having Celia's husband appreciate and thank Minny is the ultimate pleasure in a book otherwise showing mostly ungrateful employers. Also I am sure am glad Minny finally left Leroy after that final showdown and beating. Enough is enough.
I have less to say really about Skeeter, though she is the impetus for all the interviews to even happen. She writes, she submits, and she publishes the book under anonymous. Her mother wants her to marry, and she does fall twice for Stuart, but ultimately has to lose him instead of giving up her ideals. I like Skeeter, and I think her great love for Constantine is a real plus in the plot and her character's development. I think she really endures a lot by losing her childhood friends, the respect of all the Women's League members, and Stuart. At the same time, she gains the great friendship of Aibie and also of Minny. She finally is able to let go of home and go to follow her dream job. Most of all, she accomplishes an almost impossible task of getting the black maids to share their stories and getting so many people to actually read about it. Also I think she helps in some way to transform her mother from a "I need my daughter to get married at any cost" to a woman who has some resilience and appreciation for her daughter after all. Personality-wise, I think Skeeter is really the least developed of the three main characters.
Overall, I must say that this book still has me thinking about the times of segregation and the ultimate unfairness of it. I see Hilly, who seems to have few redeeming qualities aside from the great love for her children, to be the personification of this racist attitude and the idea of separate but equal thinking. Her drive to set up separate bathrooms for the help is the central point of what makes Skeeter perhaps so wanting to change things. It is Hilly who makes Aibie feel shame over having her own bathroom built in the garage, and it is Hilly who is the nemesis of both Minny and Celia. So despite her rather shallow and "evil" qualities, I think putting a human quality on Hilly
would not serve any good purpose. Hilly needs to be this evil, unlikeable, one-dimensional character. Elizabeth in some ways is even less developed and has virtually no thoughts outside of Hilly's thoughts -- that seems to be the point... What I don't understand is how Hilly could become the leader of the Women's League when she is so young, has been married only a few years, and is a young mother. I would have thought in reality that the older women would have more of a role in a group like this. However, without this role as president, Hilly would not have the power and the "pulpit" and the influence to get both Minny and Skeeter rejected like they are. All coming back to the unfairness of segregation.
I'll end here with this thought -- if you have to choose only one book to read, choose THE HELP. You will have a new understanding of why civil rights was so needed and why MLK gave his life to see it happen.
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